Husband & I can’t agree!

My husband and I are having a little girl and we can’t agree on a name or how to paint the nursery! I know exactly what I want for both and he hates the name & wall color. Anyone else having a hard time compromising? For the record I love the name Penelope and I want white nursery walls with wood/natural accents. I’m thinking having the white walls will allow us to get a ton of decorations in color without being overboard, the rest of our house is neutral. I feel so overwhelmed because we can’t agree on anything 😩