Alright. So this is gonna sound really bad. Please don't judge. I started sleeping with a friend of mines boyfriend. We were sleeping together for about a month and I felt wrong so I wanted to tell her. We told her and now she hates me. (Typical and expected.) she still talks to him though and acts like she wants him back and hurts him when they get close enough to have a relationship. He and I were still friends until he told her we had stopped talking and I wasn't gonna be his friend if he's still lying so I cut him off. Four months later he texted me and we had been talking since. He said he couldn't get me off his mind for anything and wanted me back. I started giving him a chance and we were sexually active until he told me he still wasn't sure what he wanted. He loves me but he also loves his ex. Idk what to do because I love him but I don't want this to look like some weird competition because this girl was one of my best friends. I've given him all the space he wants but people keep advising him to cut me off so he's not sure what to do either. Help.