..is this normal

mari

So lately I'm just not into having sex with my husband I used to want it all the time and he wouldn't go so now the tables have turned and honestly we have sex once a month maybe twice but i'm ok with not...I figure since he really don't show affection or bothers cuddling it's pushed me to not really care what do I do ive tried speaking to him about how I feel and clearly in one ear out the other.. ..so i'm stuck anyone else ever go through something like this?