Eptopic Pregancy

ttc for rainbow baby • My husband and I have been together 7 years. Married since Aug 2014. We started ttc in July 15 and got pregnant first month and it ended in an ectopic. We are now waiting for our rainbow baby .
I suffered an eptopic pregnancy on thursday and had to go into emergency surgery. I am recovering physically, but the mental toll will be the longest road I have ever went down. How long did it take any of you to get over the pain and heartbreak and when did you start trying again. Please tell me your stories.