Thinking and worrying

Hope

I’m in my late 40’s and will be trying for a baby hopefully in Feb or March 2019. I’m worried that instead of our pregnancy announcement being met with joy and happiness it will be met with ridicule and negativity. I have never had children and am over the moon at the chance for this to actually happen for us, knowing his family, I feel that they will not be supportive but very judgmental about our ages and our abilities to care for and keep up with a baby. I know that they will love the child but I worry that they will not be as involved in his/her life as much as they would if we were a young couple having a child. When we were married in our early 40’s we were not supported with our wedding like other much younger members in the family were when they got married and I feel like it will be the same when we tell them we are pregnant (FX). Has anyone close to my age had to announce their pregnancy and the news been taken well?