Personal.. Child Support? Or Just Be Supermom & Do it all by myself?

My daughter will be 6 weeks on Wednesday. Her Donor, (Yes, donor.. you’ll find out why.) has not came to see her. I haven’t seen him physically since May, tbh.

He facetimed her the day she was born, & does that maybe once every two weeks. He’ll text me and asks “what my daughter doin?”

Has said multiple times that he was going to come see her, but always has an excuse. To the point where I don’t believe him anymore.

He blames it on him having to “go to court” , but he can go buy a new pair of shoes on a Saturday.

Yes, I text him, but only when he texts me first.

This is my first child, and Ive always said that I would never put a guy on child support.. but he doesn’t even acknowledge her. Not even his family, I don’t even know if they know she exists! Hasn’t provided for her financially, hasn’t changed a diaper nor fixed a bottle.

Im tired of playing nice, what should I do? help.