So my husband and I had a big fight about money where he went and moved all of our savings to his personal savings, because I had to go in it.

The situation is this:

I make about 2000 a month ( about 4000 before everything is taken out; 401k, benifits, etc).

Every month I am playing the pull and put back in game with our savings because after I contribute my 2000 with the 2500 he gives me for bills, I'm down to $0. He is hard to talk to about money and the lack of it I have each month. I have never been one to ask for money, so it's hard for me to ask for it. When I do, he's confused to why I don't have.

Today while I'm away trying to promote my business he went to the bank to make a deposit and saw that the account was low. Yesterday our bill payment system sent out double payments totaling 2200, and I used 1600 which I was putting back in my next pay day.

I know I should have told him about the 1600 but it's hard to talk to him, and I just end up crying feeling like I can't manage anything or do anything right.

Like I told him I was only working with what I had. And every month I'm actually doing the same pull and put back because I don't have extra money, but it's put back! He doesn't offer money and he makes 13,000 a month, and when I do ask its a hassle.

I don't know how to deal with this. We have our first US appointment on Tuesday and more I feel like the excitement for that is gone. I feel like a failure of a wide and woman because when we met I had my own everything. Life is so different for me know that I live in a slower state, and not much work is offered here.

I feel like I just started the end of my marriage! I need advice I'm feeling like a complete failure!!!