okay so my current boyfriend is only the second man I've slept with... and he is so much bigger than my ex. he asked me if It hurt me when it went all the way in and I said no because in missionary it felt great. but lastnight I got on top and wanted to die. it was so painful so I tried to not go all the way down but then he started doing some work too and we switched back to missionary. I'll probably talk to him about it but how can I help myself? we've only had sex 3 times and they've all been a few weeks apart.