I'm going to lose my virginity soon. Any advice?

I don't have a lot of sexual experience, but we're gonna start with other stuff first, but how do I make myself less awkward. Should I just let him take control? Should I wear lingire? How do I make it less painful? What type of condoms should I use? I'm not expecting it to be amazing, but what will make it more fun? Any help is appreciated, thanks.