So we basically have everything painted the colors we picked, but now I can't for the life of me find a bed set for the crib that we like. Why does everything have to seem to boyish or to girlish? I want something that goes with either gender. I'm sick of sewing tones of pink and blue come on people! With my daughter almost five years ago it was like her room vomited pink everywhere, not sure yet what we are having should find out the 25th of this month and I'm so frustrated on selections anymore these days.