First orgasm

Sooooo, my first orgasm happened last week but it was after sex using my satisfyer pro. Ever since I haven’t been able to climax again. I can’t do it by hand or with head or by penetration. Idk what else to do. I want to be able to orgasm more often even if it includes toys.. does anyone have any suggestions or toys that’ll help finish the job ASAP. I’m 21 and I just don’t get why I can’t seem to function like other people and it’s so unfair. I feel as though it’s discouraging for my bf because I feel great after sex but I’m never fully done so I’ll want more and he’s on his 4x and I just can’t seem to want to end until I reach it again