Help! I’m 34 and I want life’s milestones like anyone else...

I’m overweight by about 80 pounds. I am 34 years old. I don’t have a man of my own. I don’t have a job. I used to. I used to be the hottest new employee at my ad agency, winning awards and working for big clients like Disney. After I lost a friend to a falling out, I quit my job to travel and take some time off. But it’s been 2 years now and I don’t have a job. My parents have been helping me and I’m so

In debt. Before this falling out, I had a great thing going, perfect credit score. Now my life is in total shambles.

I want a family of my own, with a house, husband, job that satisfies and excites me. I want to feel like I’m living and on the right track... and 150 pounds.

Any suggestions on how to get there?

I watch all my friends move onto having their amazing lives and it’s like society is telling me I’m not allowed to be part of that club. I want in though. Help!