So I'm a FTM, I have a large family and my boyfriend has an average sized one. We have been together for 9 1/2 years now. My sister threw me a surprise baby shower yesterday and it was terrible! There were over 100 people that were invited because it was coed and it was for our families and friend. Most of our friends are the same we grew up together went to school together and none of them showed up, more than half of my family didn't show up and half of his didn't show up. I'm so hurt and disappointed that this happened. I'm am the type of person that goes to every family event/birthday party/holiday party/ etc. even those parties that are for kids....and we don't have any yet. I'm so unbelievably upset that no one really came. I'm very close with my boyfriends family, so close that I feel his sister is my sister etc. am I making a big deal out of it when I don't want to go to anymore parties or anything with either one of our family's for those who didn't show up?! Including his sister who has two kids and I go there for everything. His sister and I are close well at least that's what I thought, we hang out a lot I'm there when she needs I was there when she had her showers and when her babies were born three everything I've been there. There was a time when my boyfriend and I were taking a small break just due to some of their families issues they were going through and he didn't have time to be with me...which was when one of her kids were born I was still around and still there for everything.....she NEVER came to my shower and she was suppose to be apart of the planning and helping for it! And has yet to say anything to me about it. I'm so deeply hurt by this and don't want to talk to her or for her to babysit my kid when I need her to. I know this may be a tad dramatic but that's how I feel. My boyfriend thinks I'm making such a big deal over nothing and that I'm taking it to far...Am I? This shower was so bad it looked like it was just thrown together in an hour with no effort my sister who threw it has 2 kids of her own and she's very jealous that I'm having a baby, she's older than I am and we haven't had a baby I. Our immediate family in 8years so everyone is excited and she doesn't like it, I feel like she did this on purpose and now since hardly anyone showed up I have a tun Of stuff to still get. I'm freaking out now I don't know what I'm having and now I'm stressing about money and making sure I'll have everything I need I just don't know what to do I feel horrible and since the shower yesterday all I've done was cry. This was suppose to bed a happy time and a party is remember forever in a good way, now all I have is a horrible memory of the crappiest shower I've been to. I wanted the shower kind of early incase this would happen that I'd still would need to get things and I'd have time but this was way worse than I thought! I am however great full for the items I did get and for those who came but it's just not right that I go to everything and the one time I have a party no one shows. Goes to show who my real family/friends are 😢😥😓 just feeling so disappointed and sad and a bit depressed that this happened.