What’re your thoughts..

So my husband is infamous for adding girls to his social media(even after being told to keep certain ones off (his exes) ) i communicate with him that it bugs me and how he’s not in high school anymore and it bugs me that he’s still thinking of these people and talking about them or even saying someone reminds him of them. I’ve taken them off several times yet they keep popping up and everytime I try to explain how it makes me feel he gets super defensive and rude. He says “ sounds like a personal problem”

I’m really over trying to get my feelings out and known with him about it and he makes no real effort to respect that.

What would you do??