So I haven't used a menstrual cup because I am unsure about them but I basically wanted to know if the whole cup goes inside you including the stem and if so how far up would you say it goes. Also do you put your fingers inside you to get the stem and pull it out or is the stem still kind of out of you. And if you cut them stem off do you have to go digging in your hole to try find the base of the cup to pull it out? Please let me know