I got pregnant by <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. 13 weeks but sadly not happy at the moment. I confided in a few friends and my sister all what I was doing. We decided not to tell his parents because of their religious beliefs. I decided not to tell my mom because of many reasons (she has a bit of mental problems). Now that we have told family we are expecting I still don’t want anyone to know how we got there. I’m my opinion it doesn’t matter but people will make a point of it. I just want people to know and be happy but not the side note. I found out my sister told my mom I was getting shots, she didn’t think my mom would put the two together. I confronted my sister and she acted like she was the victim cause she had to keep a secret.

i guess my main concern is I don’t want people to know until I decide to tell people which might be after the baby comes. My husband even doesn’t understand. He doesn’t realize it was my body that could not get pregnant on its own and it’s my age that made things harder. My body had to go through all the physical pain, shots and everything else. I just want to keep all that private for now. My sister said (via text) she can’t do it anymore. So does she mean she will tell people everything she knows? I don’t know what I will do if she tells people but will cut her out of my life.

I am trying to stay stress free but all this is driving me crazy cause I don’t want people to know about the <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and that I trusted the wrong person my sister.