Not enough experience

So I don’t have a lot of experience with serious relationships. All of my past relationships were pretty short and not serious, so I never really got to where I am now

. Right now me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year, we had communication issues before which actually lead to us breaking up for about a week and this was only about a month ago. We actually managed to fix that and everything has been so much better. However, I don’t really know what I should expect from him at this point in our relationship.

I don’t see myself getting engaged until after college, but then again that’s only a year away for us. I also don’t expect for us to get married for at least another 4 or 5 years, maybe even a few more, but I do know that I want that and I want a family and all that jazz.

Well we did talk about it briefly when we got back together and he was really on his A game, but now I just don’t know if I’m expecting too much from him. It is normal to talk about that kind of stuff right now?

The reason I’m thinking about it is because today, not even really thinking, I said something like “I hope I have a boy first, I don’t know why I just always pictured it that way” and he said something like “Yeah if you have a boy first then (don’t remember what else, doesn’t matter for the story)” and it just bugs me for some reason that we’ve talked about wanting kids before, but he doesn’t seem to see it as ‘we’ because he said if ‘you’ have a boy. And I’m not like mad about that, I just started thinking about if it’s weird of me to be super committed and open to talk about OUR future together.

Sorry this is long but any input is welcome.