Marriage within 2-5 yrs.

Ok so it is a rapper who has just recently proposed to his wife after 10years of them being together. People are making comments that they are not waiting that long to be married and that if a man doesn’t marry them in 2-5 years their leaving. Because apparently “it doesn’t take a man that long to know if he wants to marry you or not.” This is what’s being said. I did some research on a lot of these women who were saying this and a lot of them have kids out of wedlock. So how can you possibly value marriage that much?! Idk. Do you agree that if a man doesn’t marry you within 2-5 years that you should leave?