Ok... So I have 50/50 custody with my ex him and I are both remarried and we all have a wonderful relationship for our son. But his step mom just became an RN and last week I found out on their week she took my son who is 9 to the doctor without telling me and got him on the HPV shots! My ex didn't know about it either she didn't tell him I found out when my son came back home that she had his blood drawn and it freaked him out and he wanted me but she wouldn't call me. And had the shots done, I am furious and so is my ex. She has never over stepped her boundaries with me before but now that she's a nurse she thinks she knows everything and throws it in my face because I'm a stay at home mom and apparently her job is more important than mine. My ex knows I'm highly pissed I haven't spoken to her yet because I know right now I won't be able to be level headed. If it was you how would you handle it? Because technically she didn't have consent to do it and his blood was drawn at the hospital she works at. I like that we are all able to work together and get along but I won't put up with this.