how to not be bossy in a relationship??

so my boyfriend thinks im a bit too «bossy», its really just my personality though. but i do want to at least try to change. he says that ive decided most of the stuff in our relationship (we have been together for almost 9 months). i try to stay positive for the things he suggests but honestly some ideas suck. i dont wanna be mean and tell him. i do love him though so i dont want to be bossy around him.

any ideas on how i could possibly agree to the things he wants etc?