Hymen and losing virginity (help a virgin 😂😂😂)

I’m 16. I am pretty anxious about losing virginity but I think it’s normal and, finally after a lot of terrible fear, I am feeling positive about the day my hymen will break BUT I would be sooo glad if some one could help me by answering a little question: I can put less than a inch inside of me when I try to finger myself and, when I do it, I can touch “something” so I guess it’s my hymen but it’s so close and I feel it’s rather hard and thick...is it? And I have listened to girls who defined themselves “very tight” who can put in a whole finger in while I can’t even put a inch inside. Another question: is it normal that I feel nothing when I finger myself (no pleasure) ? I know that idon’t get deep enough but is it normal? These things aren’t worrying me, I am just curious💓😘