Is it possible to be too tight?

I’m 18 and I’ve never had penetrating sex before. Most of my endeavors have been with women so, its kinda hard to manage that but I was wondering if it was possible to be too tight to have wlm sex, I can use tampons and do what I need to do but it’s almost like any kind of “sex toy” won’t fit and I’m really scared that I won’t be able to have normal sex. :/