The pass two weeks have been horrible. My fiance's ex wife has been non stop blowing up his phone and most of the time it isnt about their child. Its gotten pretty obvious she is trying to get him back. She has always hated me. From the moment she found out about me. Then when she found out I was pregnant it got worse. Then a little worse after the baby was born. And now she is worse then ever after finding out we are getting married next December. She also hates my oldest child and tries to turn my daughter and their daughter against each other all the time.

Well Weds I reached my breaking point with all of this. She is either always causing problems or blowing up his phone. Or she is being brought up in every conversation I have with his family. At my baby shower...I heard about hers. At Thanksgiving she was the topic of conversation. Every which way I turn people are talking about her. Now granted they always tell me how I am so much better but you know after 3 years...I'm sick of hearing about her all the time. So on Weds when it became very obvious she wants him back I lost it. Since then I have spent my days crying or angry or just wanting to talk. Then last night it got worse. Founs out his mother is always talking to her. She does something with her and her other daughter once a month and they talk all the time. Even though his mom claims she can't stand the ex wife. Yet, she never comes over even though I have offered all the time. She never calls and ask how her "step-granddaughter" (my daughter) is yet is always talking to ex wife about her oldest daughter. The only time I see or hear from her is when my fiance is around. When she does come over she barely speaks to my daughter and is only focused on her bio granddaughter. Its caused my daughter to be hurt. I'm starting to feel like she really doesnt want us around and would like his ex back in the picture.

I am suppose to go dress shopping soon and a big part of me doesnt want to invite her.