So my soon to be mother in law wants to be in the delivery room when I give birth. Where I live only 2 people can be in the room #1 person without a doubt will be the baby's father. But I want the 2nd person to be my mom....if for some reason my mom can't make it for example I go into the hospital while she's at work then I will gladly allow my boyfriends mom to be in there..but if my mom can make it how do I tell her? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and I don't want anyone to think badly. I know it's my choice but I'm not good with telling people no lol