Dilating

Amber
Does anyone else feel like they can feel themselves dilating already? I never did with my first son but he was very tiny, not very active, and born via emergency c-section. Most mornings I wake up and I can't even lift my legs because my business feels like I've been kicked with steel toed boots. >_< I'm swollen and very very tender. If anyone knows of any kind of relief please please please feel free to let me know.