My husband always seems to put his mother first. He always takes her side and he always makes excuses for her. The biggest excuse he makes for her is that she misunderstands easily. She is 64 years old. She is lucid. She doesn't have any mental health illnesses that would stop her from understanding anyone or anything. He always sticks up for her and never sticks up for me. She always calls me a bitch and says that I'm no good for her son. Yet when I tell him what she said he always says that sure just misspoke.We are expecting our first baby.