Im going crazy!!!

?Kira? • Ttc baby #1 ?
So last week I notice a tingling sensation in my nipple. On Wednesday I had cold like syptoms and my temp went up to 100.4, Yesterday I start spotting very very little (I thought AF was here) continued to spot today but now its completely gone...AF is 9 days late...should I test? just don't want to be disappointed :-(