Help please, family and partner arguments

Amy

I have been with my partner for 7 and a half years and we are expecting our first baby in April. We own our home and both work hard.

My dad in particular has never really gotten on with my partner, we attended a family meal and walk yesterday for my dads birthday and everyone was getting on fine.

My brother in law was then very rude to my partner and this lead to a massive argument with my mum and sister, I love my partner so much but I feel that my family have never liked him and this argument was just a blow out of seven plus years of them not liking him.

Obviously this causes a pregnant me to be very upset and confused.

I see no option but to keep my partner and family separate moving forward....... but this causes my family to miss out when it comes to baby?

Anyone else in this situation?

I feel like I have to be unemotional about it keep everyone separate and if my family don’t like it then so be it, I don’t have this problem with anyone else and my partner.

He’s really good to me and we have a very happy relationship.