Does anyone else have a sibling who is extremely jealous of your pregnancy? We have gone through a lot to have this baby (miscarriages, having trouble conceiving etc) so are obviously very excited about meeting our little girl any day now. Her partner does not want kids for a good few years yet and she has always been fine with that until we fell pregnant with our first baby (sadly this ended in a miscarrige and she was far from sympathetic when that happened) and now she is trying to force her partner into having a baby when he is not ready. I've always been very careful when I am around her to not bring up our daughter much as I'm trying to be sensitive to how she feels but some of the things she has said over the past few months is like she is trying to make me feel guilty for having a baby before her. She now does not want us coming to the family Christmas as she will be the only one without a child there and it would be all about the grandkids (which I think Christmas should be about the children and dont see why just my child should not come) and she would feel left out. I've gotten to the point now where it's making me extremely frustrated as I feel like I am getting punished by her for something that is a blessing. I would never act this way towards her if this was her in my position. I'm just not sure what to do, my partner has said I am being to nice but that is just who I am but when it's getting to the point where it's making me upset, I'm wondering if i should say something or not