I’ve been struggling for awhile, but I’m scared to reach out because I know I won’t like what I hear. Okay, so here it goes. How do I keep my boundaries healthy when I’ve already gone farther than I wanted to at the beginning of the relationship? I want more, and I love the closeness of being physical. But I know (at least I used to know) that it’s not what God wants from us in our relationship right now. I don’t know how to stop myself in the heat of the moment. But I don’t want to just completely stop having those sweet moments with him. What do I do? How do I keep myself pure while not completely avoiding one-on-one time with my boyfriend?