Don’t want Husband in delivery room

I am so tired of my Husband and his childish ways. I decided not to have him in the delivery room. My Husband is 63 yrs old and I am 35. We have a 11 year old daughter and expecting a baby any day now. I feel like I have to be on top of him for everything while I got things together. I received a mail the other day that he hasn’t paid the insurance and that it will get canceled. I asked him about it and his made a comment that he is using his retirement money to pay for it. It’s not my fault that a grown man getting insurance late in his life. I got an insurance since I was 25 because I know how it important it is for our daughter. I also told him that it’s not about him anymore. He made a comment as “no one does anything for him” what does he mean by that? Idk but I have been on my mine since 17. Went back to college and now an RN. I have no time for this immature behavior. I sear if he don’t get his shit together, I am leaving! At this point I do not want him in the delivery room. I am frustrated and he seem to not see the bigger picture. Am I wrong?