Possible Pregnancy Q (Some TMI)

Hello ladies! Let me start this off by saying that my husband got a vasectomy in September but we have had sex less than 20x (the recommended amount of ejaculations before being tested if sterile)

We had sex the first 3 days for my fertile window (without me realizing it was during my window) and then I realized I had a developing yeast infection and went to the doctor. I was prescribed Diflucian and took it the day before my predicted Ovulation. I’m fairly certain I ovulated because of the cramping I get during ovulation every month.

After ovulation I had a couple days of creamy lotion cm which is normal for me but then instead of it turning watery it became EWCM. After a couple days of the EWCM (3dpo-6dpo) it changed to a mixture of creamy and EWCM so it looked white but was still stretchy. This is unusual for me and made me think I might have conceived.

7dpo-9dpo I had this white stretchy cm along with cramping, headaches, and extreme fatigue. 10dpo and 11dpo (today) I seem to have dried up, which is normal for me pre AF. I have also taken internet cheapies and frer and stark white BFN.

Also, for the last 5-7 days my nipples have been very painful while breastfeeding my son. That was a sign for me when I became pregnant while still breastfeeding my daughter.

When I was getting the weird symptoms I spoke to my husband about it and he said he would be happy if we happened to conceive but if not then that’s fine too because that was why we got the procedure in the first place. We had both agreed the two beautiful children we have are enough.

Now I’ve been almost hoping I’m pregnant and so it’s made me symptom spot and become very sad that I’ve had BFNs and now that I’ve dried up and I’m fairly sure AF is on her way.

So here is my question:

Has anyone dealt with my above listed symptoms and ended up pregnant? Is it all in my head ? Are these just AF symptoms? Any and all kind words are appreciated, even if they are just stating that I’m out, AF is coming and that its just how it’s meant to be.

Thank you 💚