Idk what to do... 😔

Idk if I want advice or if I just need to get it off my chest... long post warning!

Some background, my baby's father and I had only been together a few months when we got the surprise news of pregnancy. To complicate things, he had agreed to go work across the country for months for his company and I found out a few weeks after he had left already. We were both shocked but agreed we wanted this baby.

From there, he would call almost every day. I always kept him updated. I was having spotting due to low lying placenta and he would call to check up on me. He sounded so happy when I was telling him about the first time I saw baby wiggle. I was super sick in the beginning and he would say that he wish he could help me out. I went out to visit him for a week and everything was fine, we were happy and he was kissing and rubbing my belly, going out of his way to do things for me.

But as the months have gone on, it feels like he has gotten more and more distant. The calls started to slow down and when he does call its maybe 5 minutes as he is about to fall asleep. I try to be understanding, I know theres a 2 hour time difference and he does work and people do want some time to themselves. I just have a feeling it's more than that, though, and I try to talk to him and he immediately gets mad at me. He says very mean things and then I get ignored for a few days. I see he is on social media and sometimes he is out with his guy friends as he is ignoring me. Unless I say sorry for whatever reason, he wont talk to me. It makes me feel like crap and I've told him this. I go out of my way to make him feel involved in the pregnancy... we had a gender reveal and when we found out it was a girl he didnt really react at all, I've done videos of the belly when baby is kicking and he doesnt seem to care all that much.

To make things even more complicated, I have been laid off from my job unexpectedly. I'm managing the money I get as best as I can, finances are tight on my end. In the beginning, we agreed that medical bills that come in, we would both pay 50% ...he has contributed but not much. I have paid most of the bills and have bought 99% of the things to prepare for her while trying to find a new job. I never see money for anything.

All in all, as time goes on everything seems to be going downhill and I have been trying so hard to keep this going. He was happy at first, I want my daughter to have a father. He hasn't called in 2 weeks and I've just gotten some random half hearted texts every couple days, so I finally say I'm tired of forcing him to be involved, that it hurts that he cant take 5 seconds to at least ask how his growing child is doing and that I just want to know what's going on. His response, "i know it's not going to work between us, i never should have been with you. I think about how I let you in and you totally changed the direction my life and it pisses me off. There's too much going on and I feel like I will never get away from you now" ...it broke my heart. Idk if it's the distance, idk what to think... I just feel like I'm going to end up doing this alone. He was happy at first and now 26 weeks along and idk if my daughter is going to have a father that wants her. Are hormones making me dramatic?? Idk what to think or do or how to proceed from here. I'm scared and I already feel like I'm failing my daughter... 😔😔😔