Would you allow your “grandma” see your kids after calling your fiancé a “spic” or a “chink”?

My “aunt” aka her daughter told me all this stuff she said before. I keep using quotations because they are nothing to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

My mom lives out of state but thinks I should let them see the kids. They’ve never met. Well, my “grandma” showed up to the hospital after I had my first and I had security kick her out. Crazy asses.

I would never keep my real family members from my kids even if we stopped talking but she is totally different. She’s insane and I was even uncomfortable around her as a child.