I have two brothers. One is married to a woman who hates our family, so we haven't talked since my last baby was born. And he never comes to visit. My second brother is 10 mins away from my house,has only seen my first baby (who is one year old) once, right after she was born. He never talks to me. please help. I feel kind of bad not telling them. But i dont feel either will care and might be upset as they seem to have a problem with my wonderful,loving husband. Im only 4 weeks along in the pregnancy. My husband is really great and they just have never given him a chance and have never wanted to get to know him. We have been married 3 years and have a wonderful marriage. Thanks for any advice! :)