How to not be devastated?

Question

So did and I have been trying for almost 8 months. 
We tried very hard this month and I'm feeling pretty good about our chances. Af is due in 5 days and I'm terrified. 
I want to be optimistic but at the same time I'm scared of being too optimistic because if I'm not pregnant I'm worried I'll be absolutely devastated. 
This journey has been so much harder than I could have imagined. 
How do you cope?

Answer

I’ve stopped getting excited to take tests as we’ve been trying for 2 years. Finding other things to look forward to regardless of pregnancy can make it easier. In the beginning my husband and I would go to my favorite bar if I wasn’t pregnant.

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Day by day honey! I've been trying for 6 years. We got pregnant in November, and had a M/C in the middle of January. Still trying, and nothing. Its hurtful, but understand that if its not happening, then it must be a completely good reason for it! Just take it day by day honey.

Answer

We’ve also been trying 8 months. I’m due for my period next week too. I actually feel like it’s gotten a little easier as now I don’t even expect a positive pregnancy test. So when I get the negative I’m not as disappointed as if I’d been expecting a positive. It sounds a little sad but that’s how I cope.

How to not be devastated?

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