Is it just me?

So my husband was been amazing when he took fmla when our daughter was born and he's been back to work for about a month and a half. But since he has gone back to work I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick. I am going to college and staying home with our first baby. I love her so much and would do anything for her but now my husband complains about her and sleeps all the time. I understand he works nights and is tired during the day so I let him sleep. He gets 8-8&1/2 hours every day whereas I get about 5 hours a night and then I'm up all day. When the baby naps, I'm cleaning the house, planning dinners, preparing his prep meals for the week, and doing school work. I feel so tired and overwhelmed but I feel like I shouldn't be complaining but my depression and anxiety is starting to get the best of me. I tell my husband I just want to take a long shower for once or just sleep in one day but it never happens. When he says he wants some baby time, he complains about how she's kicking him and moving around so much or he just lays her on her play mat and he plays on his phone. When I bring it up, I feel like I'm insane. I don't know what to do. Is it just me going through a phase or is something more? I feel lost and alone all the time now and I've been crying a lot about it. I don't want to go to a therapist because I don't want to leave her at home with him because she doesn't take a bottle. I don't understand why he is so bitchy. We have been trying for a baby for over six and a half years and now we have our baby and now it seems like he doesn't care. I don't know what to do anymore.