I was raised where my parents either bought us the same amount of gifts money wise or x amount of gifts. I asked the fiance how r we doing it.. he said it shouldn't matter the cost.. so I asked okay so how many gifts each.. never answered me. Well went shopping today an he basically tried getting everything on his daughters list.. so the kids now have a different amount.. it was or is frustrating. He says he wants them happy.. okay well that don't mean they need everything they want. It ain't about the gifts but the way he is doing it.. makes it seem that way. Brought it up to him he gets pissy cause he thinks i'm bitching about money.. no cause he just kept putting things in the cart for her. Everything she wanted. Then he wants to go back an get more.. like no y can't he understand he doesn't need to spoil her

He wants to get her all this crap.. she'll play with it only a few times an that's it just like her stuff she got for her birthday in sept. He bought a bunch of crap.. it was played with once some of it not at all an it sits. Both kids pretty much have everything an don't really need that much

Don't want to get my kid the same amount cause they really don't need that much stuff. They already have everything and the things they do have that barely touch. I see no point in over accumulating even more when it is only sitting there also they will be getting stuff from other family members also so in my eyes they don't need 15 gifts each