So as we know the holidays are coming up. It is my baby’s first Christmas! My brothers girlfriend has always annoyed me and been very overbearing etc. her and my brother love to “play house” with my baby, and when she found out I was pregnant she threw a fit because it wasn’t her.......anyway she asked to “borrow” my baby for a few hours one day for a surprise. I found out she arranged for a Christmas photo shoot for my baby, and was going to use the pictures as their Christmas gift to everyone...

(I found this out through my mom, my brother and his girlfriend weren’t even going to tell me.)

I know they are doing something nice but it’s my baby’s first Christmas and I wanted to do his christmas pictures! I feel like the parents should get first dibs on doing stuff like that. Idk Do I have a right to feel annoyed? I’m thinking of asking her to cancel her photo shoot because my baby’s father and I were already planning to do our own Christmas photos and use them as our gift to family this Christmas..

Thoughts? I appreciate any honesty!