I don’t think he’s getting the right impression

so I’ve been talking to this guy I really do like. Hes been trying to get over a girl he went out with for two years. I’ve known him forever but we didn’t see each other for about the last year or so. Lately we’ve been texting and its mainly catching up. A while back ago we were just talking (in person) and he pulled me onto his lap and we were kissing. He didn’t text me back or anything after that. Yesterday night he wanted to play t or d. I picked d for one round and he asked for bra and underwear pics. I was in a mood and did it. He didn’t make any comments but hasn’t talked to me since then.

I really do like and trust him but I want a relationship not just friends with benefits. How do I bring it up? I feel like all he wants from me is a fwb relationship, do I text him?

Thanks for any help. 🖤

EDIT: he’s back with his ex 🙄