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So my boyfriend who I am supposed to be marrying wen to jail about two weeks ago. We usually have sex 2 or 3 times a day and now it is killing me. I love him to death and would never cheat on him. He knows that I have thing for girls but I was wondering, do you think it's ok to get a girlfriend while he is away? And if so should I tell him or keep it a secret??

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If you would never cheat on him why are you asking if you should tell him? If you engage in an emotional or sexual relationship with someone other than him it's cheating. Just because it's a woman doesn't make it not cheating .__.

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In my opinion it is still cheating even if you have sex with a woman (are lesbians not people also?) however if you have his blessing to carry on a sexual relationship while he is away that is okay. If you keep it from him though it is cheating.

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If he knows your into chicks tell him get his blessing and then add maybe when u get out we can have fun together

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Having an emotional/sexual relationship with anyone even if it's the same gender it's cheating.  Would you do this to a soldier when he was "away".  Don't know how long he's in jail for, but if you feel the need to get your socks rocked and can't wait for him... Think it's time to move on.  If your "supposed" to be married you should be taking thinking a little more seriously about the relationship, so... Worse case talk to him if he gives you the thumbs up.  You're good to go, otherwise... You either need to leave or be faithful as he asks. 
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I still consider it cheating but ive done it... and didnt feel incredibly guilty.

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