I have an eight-year-old son and he really doesn’t have anything to do with his father’s family they really haven’t been in his life at all except around the holidays well last night I finally told my eight-year-old after finding out that his father is not in the state of Maine and we don’t know how long he’s been out of state and my son doesn’t want to go to his grandmothers house knowing that he won’t see his dad and he doesn’t want to go with them on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> but now his grandmother wants him on Christmas day should I leave that decision as well to my son or should I tell his grandmother no