Scared of sex...

Okay , I’m doing an anonymous post because this is quite embarrassing.. but here’s my story!

I’m afraid of sex , I’m 19 years old , I’ve attempted to have sex with 3 different boys but with all of em I was scared .. I always end up making them stop before they finished. I don’t think I get very sexually aroused down there because it all be so painful 🤦🏽‍♀️💔 I make them stop before I cum because I be feeling like I’m not gonna be able to control myself 😞 can some one give me tips on how can I get better & Stop being so nervous while having sex..