sex at 14???

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is it okay to have sex at 14? why or why not, and also would people judge you if they found out about it?

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In my opinion it’s too young.

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People judge regardless. In my opinion, fourteen is too young to be having any type of sexual relations. I lost my virginity at fourteen because I wanted to be grown; biggest mistake of my life. I’m not saying that you or any other teenager would “regret” it, but try to wait until you’re older and more mature. Someone shared with me once, “Enjoy your youth without ruining your future.” Keep that in mind!

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If you have to ask, you’re not ready to have sex. Also, no matter how safe you are, you could end up pregnant. Is that something you’re okay with?

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I say just enjoy being a kid for awhile..

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I feel that 14 is way too young to have sex. I have a 14 year old sister and I pray that's not on her mind. Don't let anyone manipulate you into doing it either, also most states you aren't even old enough to consent to sex at 14.

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It’s not even about the judgment...it’s about the law. 14 is younger than the age of consent in most places and this is because most 14 year olds are not responsible.

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Too young to have sex imo. And yes you would probably be judged.

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I didn’t even want any people touching me in a sexual way whatsoever until I was 17, the idea of sexual contact was just icky and pointless to me haha so personally I think it’s too young but you do you, it’s your body girl.

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Oh god. There’s so much to consider. Are you the legal age to give consent in your state? How old is your partner? Do you have birth control, condoms, or any protection? Do you have the sexual history of your partner? Have you and your partner both been tested? Do you have a trustworthy adult or parent to talk to about this? 
Look, I’m 18. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 17 (the legal age in my state). You need to be 100% sure. Make sure your body is ready to handle this. At 14, my body would have been in shock experiencing penetration. In my personal opinion, you should at least wait a year or so. Maybe several months. Make sure this is something you want. Because mistakes can happen. You can always prepare for mistakes but nothing is 100% effective against STDs, or pregnancies. Please be safe and really think this through. Sex is more serious than a lot of people like to take it.

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No!!!! I am only 16 and I feel like I am still so so young for sex. Yes, me and my boyfriend do things, but sex is a HUGE step when you're a teenager. If your friends are and you feel like you want to, ask yourself if you can take care of a baby. You're still a kid, so probably not. Just please enjoy being young.