Hi all I need help lol

I started my last period Oct 29 it lasted to Nov 9.

I am currently 17 days late now! However bunch of negative urine test!!! I have a dr appointment the 21st they scheduled so out so if I am pregnant it will show. So the wait is killing me! Has this happened to anyone else? Negative home tests but positive blood test?

I have absolutely every symptom out there

-nausea

-headaches

-fatigue

-mood swings (SUPER EMOTIONAL)LOL

-dizzy/light headed

-rapid heart (i get this with my pregnancies not sure why my last pregnancy they put a monitor on me)

-tender nipples

-visible viens in breast

-heart burn

-super bloated

-constipation

>this would be my 3rd pregnancy if so.

ETA

About a week ago I had pink when I wiped no actual spotting of blood but when I wiped I noticed it was a very light pink.