I’m not sure what’s happening to my relationship.

We’ve been together for 3 1/2 years. Live together and have a son and I’m currently pregnant with our second child who hopefully will be here on Monday.

We’ve been hit with a lot of financial problems the past month and half. I think maybe that could be some of the issue.

He has a new job, in which his uncle got him and is suppose to be better for us in the long run. Except he took a 700$ pay cut a week from what he was making. Which has made everything hard on us.

I feel like me and him are really growing apart. I don’t know how to get it through his head what I’m needing from him, it doesn’t seem to matter. I keep trying to communicate with him. I feel so unhappy, he won’t talk to me about anything but his job. I’m excited to meet our daughter and he doesn’t seem to care. I get we both have different interest. I just don’t ever find us communicating about anything and it hurts. I don’t get to talk to anyone besides our son since I am a stay at home mom.

I would be working if we didn’t just have one vehicle.

I’m mostly resentful, since I see appreciation post all the time that other men write about there wives/gf and it hurts me. I think he’s done it once. But sometime I just want some reassurance. He never says anything about me. I can’t help but feel like I’m not enough anymore and I might be more of an obligation now that we have children.

What’s sad is I often, find my self thinking that there is someone out there who would do what asking from him with out me having to ask. I know because I had it before. Although ending that relationship felt right at the time I keep finding myself regretting it. I don’t want to regret it. I just want him to hear me when I’m asking for what I need.