**TMI** This is a WHOLE new level of disguising.

*Im full warning you right now that

what youre about to read is absolutely disgusting. This post is a mix of venting and looking for advice on how the hell to deal with my little brother.*

So recently my brother has picked up the habit (pun intended) of picking his nose and wiping his nasty ass boogers ON THE WALLS. One day I went to the restroom and noticed a booger on the wall. I right away knew it was him as hes the only one nasty enough to do this.. seriously theres toilet paper why the hell is he putting it on the WALLS??!! At first he got defensive and started blaiming it on everyone else he even suggested it was me.

He usually acts this way when hes embarrassed so I backed off thinking I had embarrassed him enough to keep him from doing it again.

Now I know some of you are probably assuming "oh hes probably 4 years old"..

NO. This boy is a grown ass dude. Wayyyyy too old to know better, obviously he knows better if hes going to deny it and blaim others. Which by the way he later admitted it was him..

I was hanging out with him in his room and as I left his room I noticed another even nastier booger on the wall.

At this point there is NO DENYING it. I point it out to him and then run over to his desk and looked at that wall.. sure enough theres more!!! Im literally flipping out. I tell him to follow me and I lead him into the bathroom and show him the rest of his "evidence" he left for ME to clean up.

You guys. When i tell you this dude seriously tried to argue that only half of the stuff on the walls was his because he wouldnt stretch that far away from the toilet I just about died. HOW THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO TRY AND ARGUE THAT HALF THIS SHIT IS YOURS AND THE REST IS SOMEONE ELSES?! I told him "YOURE STRETCHING OUT BECAUSE YOUR NASTY ASS RAN OUT OF ROOM!!"

I tell him clean his shit or I am telling mom and he laughed and said go ahead. So I did and she told him to clean it up. She was pissed as this is her house shes worked hard for and hes destroying in the most unsanitary way.

Well later he half ass cleaned it up and it wasnt brought up again until tonight.

OMG I LITERALLY AM SICK JUST WRITING THIS. Tonight was the LAST DAMN STRAW. Im so beyond dusgusted to even be typing this right now. Im not what youd call a "germ freak" but I am definately a clean person and when I saw what I am about to tell you *breaths in* I about lost my mind.

I came home from work and was pretty hungery. I grabbed a plate from the cabinet to make myself some food and as I am getting the plate down I notice something...

This NASTY DUDE WIPED *omg I cant even type it* another "piece of evidence" on the last clean plate.

This is THE LAST DAMN STRAW. Clearly he has no shame with everyone in the house knowing this shit but I bet if I tell his new girlfriend and point all the shit out in his room next time she comes over he wont do it again!! I didnt want to humiliate the guy thats why I dropped it the first time but NOW.. NOW its a whole new level of WHAT THE FUCK. Maybe his girlfriend can put his ass in check. I cant even believe I am even putting this out on this app cause even anonymously im still embarrassed and im not even the nasty ass doing this shit!! Ugh ive had it.

I guess aside from venting on here because my mom doesnt even want to think about it or look at it.. I want to know (before I actaully call him out infront of his GF) am I wrong to embarrass him this way? Sure it might stop him but am I wrong for basically usuing humiliation as a tool to get him to stop doing this NASTY behavior??

I have to admit im worried by posting this that people (even though this is anonymous) will think my moms house is gross. Its not. Hes gross. My mom works too damn hard to keep this place up for him to do what hes doing which only makes me more mad hes doing this. Part of the reason I dont want to call my brother out infront of his GF is because I dont want to make my mom or her home look bad because hes disrespectful and unsanitary. I feel so bad for my mom as I can tell shes so upset hed even do this to a home shes worked her ass off for. Hes basically a man child. If you have helpful advice on how youd handle this I would like to read it but please be nice as its him doing this not anyone else.

I cant say enough how absolutely disgusted i am.

Sorry of this is the wrong thread to post this here I thought itd be ok because is group is about relationships and since his relationship to me is my brother I thought maybe this would be ok to post here. I understand if it gets moved.