How many did you sleep with the year you lost your virginity?

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I just lost my virginity last year, at the beginning of my freshman year of college. The first actual encounter I don't really remember and it was just a really shitty situation. But not long after I met different guys, started going to parties. I have now slept with 9 people in one year. Most I wish didn't happen. my bf that I've been with since May was kinda freaked out about my number and still doesn't really like having sex without a condom. It kinda makes me feel bad about myself, but I love my boyfriend and prefer to wear them anyway. I'll I guess it's just the fact that sometimes I'll put it in without a condom and he'll be like "whatcha doin?". It just kinda hurts my feelings.

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Don't feel bad about yourself no matter how many guys you sleep with,  it's your life, your memories,  do what you want regardless of what anyone thinks of you.  When you are old and look back at your life your going to laugh at the choices you made and think well I've Lived my life and I'm not dying a boring old maid. Point is most guys sleep with whoever they want and they don't think twice on how many  they sleep with so why should you as long as you enjoyed it.

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I'm sure he will come around. It may just take time. Show him that he's the only guy that you'll be with now and as long as you're together.

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After the first year I lost my virginity I did the same thing and slept with about six guys usually really crapoy sex and I felt guilty and used but if you are feeling icky about your boyfriend talk to him communication is key in any relationship

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Honestly if it were me I would take tests and give him the results. I know that most people would say "you don't have to prove yourself to a guy" but I could see if I really liked someone and thought our relationship could go somewhere then I would do it. While giving him the results id tell him that his reactions hurt me so much that I had to get tested. At least you guys could talk about it and he can see where you're coming from. 
I hope this maybe helps a little? Either way, I hope that you don't feel bad about yourself because of this. Don't let it bring you down

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Well you have to accept your choices, but respect his too. As far as you putting it in without a condom when you know how he feels about it, that's wrong.
How would you feel if you wanted condoms and he decided to just put it in? VIOLATED.
Respect his body and yours.

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I have sex w ppl Ik or that I'm comfortable w me m my friend are fuck buddies n I had a guy that likes me n we ditched school n hooked up. Just those two I have 3 others who want to have sex w me but idk yet

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I sleep with 5 different guys before I got together with my husband I've been having sex since I was 18... Sleeping with 9 guys in one year really isn't that bad I knew this girl who sleep with the whole football team and half the school our 9th grade year of high school... So I don't think sleeping with 9 guys in one year is all that bad I sleep wit 5 different men the year I turned 18 and only 2 of them I was dating the others were either one night stands or friends with benefits... I was the first person my husband ever sleep with he was 29 when he lost his V card to me... And he didn't care how many guys I sleep with he knew I was safe and didn't have anything...

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I'd be upset too. I've slept with 20+ people and Andrew doesn't care one bit. I always get checked out. Even now and I've only been with Andrew for the last 4 years.

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In all honesty you put yourself in the position in which you slept with 9 guys so having a guy feel that way shouldn't bother you. Yeah you can go ahead and say that if he really loved you and whatnot he wouldn't care, but I'm sure anyone would be cautious hearing that. Not just as a "damn you've been around" but also to protect himself. You've only been dating since May and what if you guys don't stay together? Maybe he doesn't want to take the risk in case anything.

How many did you sleep with the year you lost your virginity?

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