I am guilty of this as well, but why do we take so much shit from some men and let ourselves be unhappy. We have to realize if we are not happy we don't have to stay. Some men run out on relationships all the time, or cheat, treat us like we aren't worth anything. They do that to keep us down. If they say shit to you like "who else is going to want you" or any serious hurtful putdown, we should all see this as a red flag and run. If they put hands on you that is definitely not love!!! I am just writing this because I have been in bad situations for too long myself, and I say some men because not all men are like this. I just want the women out there to know WE ARE WORTH IT!!! If you're gut is telling you something you need to listen to your instincts... they are usually right. We all deserve to be happy and don't settle until you are! ❤❤❤