Guy wanted to talk to be AS A FRIEND(We we’re besties all the way through high school) but his wife won’t “let him” and he’s not ALLOWED at home. I feel bad in a way because its her not him. Did I do right?

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For you being his bestie I feel like you were harsh, I understand you’re upset but he’s trying to respect his wife wishes even if she is wrong.

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I feel like you could have just said how you feel and that you're hurt instead of just lashing out at him...what's that gonna solve?

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When you say you don't want to be a second choice you do realize you're his friend right???? Wife literally beats friend. No wonder his wife doesn't want you talking to him, you seem not to know your place. Trying to sound like you're in a damn relationship with him🙄

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She should be all he’s worried about, stay in your lane

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From those messages yeah you're a shitty friend for that. Way too harshm he is trying to be respectful of his wife whether she is right or wrong. If you cared about him you would have said
 "I'm sorry that you have to stop talking to me. I will always be here when you need someone. I wish the best for your marriage"

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Lmao no. U were absolutely right! Any female that feels this way towards their mans friends are toxic as fuck. If you’ve never given a reason or her to feel some type of way towards u you’re completely right. I’ve been in this situation before, and if your towns doesn’t have the balls to let his wife know what’s up, than that’s not a friend u need.

Guy wanted to talk to be AS A FRIEND(We we’re besties all the way through high school) but his wife won’t “let him” and he’s not ALLOWED at home. I feel bad in a way because its her not him. Did I do right?

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